I have a very vivid memory of an incident at home in around 1998 to 1999. My step sister is four years older than me, and was always in trouble. One day, we both were in our bedroom when she was smoking out the window, for the umpteen time. Our step mum had warned her many times. My mother left us and remarried when I was ten years old. My dad is a strict big man but he never hit us, his voice was enough. My step mum, on the other hand, is a petite woman who ruled her daughter